Eu tenho um MediaElement que reside dentro do datamerplate de flipview, eu quero acessar esse MediaElement chamado "vídeo" no código por trás para que eu possa atribuir propriedades como jogar, pausar, etc para através de botões aqui é o código do que eu sou tentando fazer :

    <FlipView
    x:Name="flipView"
    AutomationProperties.AutomationId="ItemsFlipView"
    AutomationProperties.Name="Item Details"
    TabIndex="1"
    Grid.RowSpan="2"
    ItemsSource="{Binding Source={StaticResource itemsViewSource}}">

    <FlipView.ItemContainerStyle>
        <Style TargetType="FlipViewItem">
            <Setter Property="Margin" Value="0,137,0,0"/>
        </Style>
    </FlipView.ItemContainerStyle>

    <FlipView.ItemTemplate>
        <DataTemplate>
            <UserControl Loaded="StartLayoutUpdates" Unloaded="StopLayoutUpdates">
                <ScrollViewer x:Name="scrollViewer" Style="{StaticResource VerticalScrollViewerStyle}" Grid.Row="1">
                    <Grid Margin="120,0,20,20">
                        <Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                            <ColumnDefinition Width="400" />
                            <ColumnDefinition Width="40" />
                            <ColumnDefinition Width="360" />
                            <ColumnDefinition Width="40" />
                            <ColumnDefinition />
                        </Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                        <Border BorderBrush="Black" BorderThickness="1" Width="350" HorizontalAlignment="Left" Grid.Row="0">
                            <MediaElement x:Name="Video" AutomationProperties.Name="Video" Source="/Assets/Big_Buck_Bunny.mp4" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Stretch" Height="250" Width="350" AutoPlay="True" IsLooping="True" />
                        </Border>
                        <Border BorderBrush="Black" BorderThickness="1" Height="65" Width="350" HorizontalAlignment="Left" Grid.Row="1">
                            <StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center">
                                <Button x:Name="playButton" Margin="0,0" Click="playButton_Click" Style="{StaticResource PlayAppBarButtonStyle}" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center"/>
                                <Button x:Name="pauseButton" Margin="0,0" Click="pauseButton_Click" Style="{StaticResource PauseAppBarButtonStyle}" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center"/>
                            </StackPanel>
                        </Border>
                    </Grid>
                </ScrollViewer>
            </UserControl>
        </DataTemplate>
    </FlipView.ItemTemplate>
</FlipView>

Como faço para alcançar o pretendido?