cuando intento instalar bson_ext, veo el error ... instalar json gem funciona bien, lo que también requiere la construcción de extensiones nativas: he intentado todo, ver preguntas similares sin una buena respuesta

$ gem install bson_ext
Temporarily enhancing PATH to include DevKit...
Building native extensions.  This could take a while...
ERROR:  Error installing bson_ext:
        ERROR: Failed to build gem native extension.

        c:/Ruby193/bin/ruby.exe extconf.rb
checking for asprintf()... no
checking for ruby/st.h... yes
checking for ruby/regex.h... yes
checking for ruby/encoding.h... yes
creating Makefile

make
generating cbson-i386-mingw32.def
compiling bson_buffer.c
compiling cbson.c
cbson.c:25:23: fatal error: arpa/inet.h: No such file or directory
compilation terminated.
make: *** [cbson.o] Error 1


Gem files will remain installed in c:/Ruby193/lib/ruby/gems/1.9.1/gems/bson_ext-
1.11.1 for inspection.
Results logged to c:/Ruby193/lib/ruby/gems/1.9.1/gems/bson_ext-1.11.1/ext/cbson/
gem_make.out

$ gem install json
Temporarily enhancing PATH to include DevKit...
Building native extensions.  This could take a while...
Successfully installed json-1.8.1
1 gem installed
Installing ri documentation for json-1.8.1...
Installing RDoc documentation for json-1.8.1...