Estou fazendo uma lista de contatos com o VB.NET com imagens de status. Estou carregando esta lista do MSSQL, mas quando recarrego a lista, ela pisca.

Esta lista é um TableLayoutPanel com caixas de imagem e rótulos criados dinâmicos.

Minha pergunta é:

Como posso alterar minha imagem dentro de uma caixa de imagem dinâmica quando você recarrega meus contatos em vez de recarregar a lista inteira.

Meu código para criar a tabela:

While UserData.Read

    If UserData("Status").ToString = "Online" Then

        If UserData("NieuwBericht").ToString = "Ja" Then

            Dim newPictureBox As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox.Image = My.Resources.greenchat
            newPictureBox.Visible = True
            newPictureBox.Width = 30
            newPictureBox.Height = 30
            newPictureBox.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox)

            Dim newPictureBox2 As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox2.Image = My.Resources.greenbubblechat
            newPictureBox2.Visible = True
            newPictureBox2.Width = 30
            newPictureBox2.Height = 30
            newPictureBox2.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox2.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox2)

            Dim newLabel As New Label
            AddHandler newLabel.Click, AddressOf Chatbox
            newLabel.Text = UserData("Voornaam").ToString & " " & UserData("Achternaam").ToString
            newLabel.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            newLabel.Font = New Font("Microsoft sans serif", 12)
            newLabel.Dock = DockStyle.Fill
            newLabel.TextAlign = ContentAlignment.MiddleLeft
            newLabel.Visible = True
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newLabel)

        ElseIf UserData("NieuwBericht").ToString = "Nee" Then

            Dim newPictureBox As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox.Image = My.Resources.greenchat
            newPictureBox.Visible = True
            newPictureBox.Width = 30
            newPictureBox.Height = 30
            newPictureBox.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox)

            Dim newPictureBox2 As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox2.Image = My.Resources.greybubblechat
            newPictureBox2.Visible = True
            newPictureBox2.Width = 30
            newPictureBox2.Height = 30
            newPictureBox2.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox2.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox2)

            Dim newLabel As New Label
            AddHandler newLabel.Click, AddressOf Chatbox
            newLabel.Text = UserData("Voornaam").ToString & " " & UserData("Achternaam").ToString
            newLabel.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            newLabel.Font = New Font("Microsoft sans serif", 12)
            newLabel.Dock = DockStyle.Fill
            newLabel.TextAlign = ContentAlignment.MiddleLeft
            newLabel.Visible = True
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newLabel)

        End If

    ElseIf UserData("Status").ToString = "Afwezig" Then

        If UserData("NieuwBericht").ToString = "Ja" Then

            Dim newPictureBox As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox.Image = My.Resources.orangechat
            newPictureBox.Visible = True
            newPictureBox.Width = 30
            newPictureBox.Height = 30
            newPictureBox.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox)

            Dim newPictureBox2 As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox2.Image = My.Resources.greenbubblechat
            newPictureBox2.Visible = True
            newPictureBox2.Width = 30
            newPictureBox2.Height = 30
            newPictureBox2.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox2.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox2)

            Dim newLabel As New Label
            AddHandler newLabel.Click, AddressOf Chatbox
            newLabel.Text = UserData("Voornaam").ToString & " " & UserData("Achternaam").ToString
            newLabel.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            newLabel.Font = New Font("Microsoft sans serif", 12)
            newLabel.Dock = DockStyle.Fill
            newLabel.TextAlign = ContentAlignment.MiddleLeft
            newLabel.Visible = True
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newLabel)

        ElseIf UserData("NieuwBericht").ToString = "Nee" Then

            Dim newPictureBox As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox.Image = My.Resources.orangechat
            newPictureBox.Visible = True
            newPictureBox.Width = 30
            newPictureBox.Height = 30
            newPictureBox.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox)

            Dim newPictureBox2 As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox2.Image = My.Resources.greybubblechat
            newPictureBox2.Visible = True
            newPictureBox2.Width = 30
            newPictureBox2.Height = 30
            newPictureBox2.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox2.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox2)

            Dim newLabel As New Label
            AddHandler newLabel.Click, AddressOf Chatbox
            newLabel.Text = UserData("Voornaam").ToString & " " & UserData("Achternaam").ToString
            newLabel.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            newLabel.Font = New Font("Microsoft sans serif", 12)
            newLabel.Dock = DockStyle.Fill
            newLabel.TextAlign = ContentAlignment.MiddleLeft
            newLabel.Visible = True
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newLabel)

        End If

    ElseIf UserData("Status").ToString = "Offline" Then

        If UserData("NieuwBericht").ToString = "Ja" Then

            Dim newPictureBox As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox.Image = My.Resources.redchat
            newPictureBox.Visible = True
            newPictureBox.Width = 30
            newPictureBox.Height = 30
            newPictureBox.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox)

            Dim newPictureBox2 As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox2.Image = My.Resources.greenbubblechat
            newPictureBox2.Visible = True
            newPictureBox2.Width = 30
            newPictureBox2.Height = 30
            newPictureBox2.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox2.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox2)

            Dim newLabel As New Label
            AddHandler newLabel.Click, AddressOf Chatbox
            newLabel.Text = UserData("Voornaam").ToString & " " & UserData("Achternaam").ToString
            newLabel.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            newLabel.Font = New Font("Microsoft sans serif", 12)
            newLabel.Dock = DockStyle.Fill
            newLabel.TextAlign = ContentAlignment.MiddleLeft
            newLabel.Visible = True
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newLabel)

        ElseIf UserData("NieuwBericht").ToString = "Nee" Then

            Dim newPictureBox As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox.Image = My.Resources.redchat
            newPictureBox.Visible = True
            newPictureBox.Width = 30
            newPictureBox.Height = 30
            newPictureBox.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox)

            Dim newPictureBox2 As New PictureBox
            newPictureBox2.Image = My.Resources.greybubblechat
            newPictureBox2.Visible = True
            newPictureBox2.Width = 30
            newPictureBox2.Height = 30
            newPictureBox2.SizeMode = PictureBoxSizeMode.Zoom
            newPictureBox2.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newPictureBox2)

            Dim newLabel As New Label
            AddHandler newLabel.Click, AddressOf Chatbox
            newLabel.Text = UserData("Voornaam").ToString & " " & UserData("Achternaam").ToString
            newLabel.Name = UserData("Username").ToString
            newLabel.Font = New Font("Microsoft sans serif", 12)
            newLabel.Dock = DockStyle.Fill
            newLabel.TextAlign = ContentAlignment.MiddleLeft
            newLabel.Visible = True
            ChatContactList.Controls.Add(newLabel)

        End If

    End If

End While

Imagem da minha lista de contatos